đ§ Still Figuring It Out (But Doing It Out Loud)
ADHD motivation that actually works â because perfect plans and morning routines arenât cutting it.
Youâll get:
 3 Nudges from me
 2 Useful Finds
 1 Question to spark progress
No spam. No fluff. Just real ADHD support, once a month.

I help people find clarity through chaosâby being honest about my own.
Iâve spent most of my life trying to figure out why I self-sabotage, melt down, shut off, or blow up.
And somewhere in that chaos, I found something that finally clicked:
My story â flawed, unfinished, real â helps other people feel less alone.
Thatâs the work I do now.
Thatâs what The Dopamine Drop is all about.

This Site Is Not Here to Fix You.
Most ADHD advice assumes youâre already organized enough to use a planner, set goals, or âjust follow through.â But what if youâre not there yet?
Iâm Paul. Iâm 51. Iâve lived with ADHD for decades â before it was trendy, before people knew what executive dysfunction was, before I understood why I kept falling on my face while trying to âimprove my life.â
This site isnât full of hacks or high-performer bullshit. Itâs for people whoâve hit the wall, bounced off it, and maybe built a little tent beside it because trying again sounds just plain exhausting.
Everything I create â from my book to my newsletter to my blog is built for real-world ADHD motivation. Not dopamine-chasing. Not toxic positivity. Just tiny wins, honest reflection, and maybe a few well-placed f-bombs.
If youâre tired of self-help that only works when youâre already doing okay, youâre in the right place. This is for the late bloomers, the overthinkers, and the âI know what to do, but I just canât seem to do itâ crowd.
Iâm not a coach. Iâm not a guru. Iâm a guy figuring it outâŠout loud â and inviting you to do the same.